Teacher's Gifts

December_pictures_029Jennifer at Cozy as Spring is thinking about teacher's gifts. We are, too! Today is the day to assemble gift bags for the dance teachers. In each bag, Mary Beth will place a bar of saintly soap, a sachet of garden lavender buds, and a tin of homemade healing salve. It's a bag in keeping with the handmade pledge. The soaps are not handmade in our home, but they are handmade. I think the teachers will be very happy at this improvement over last year's soaps, which were made in our home:-). Trish's soaps are truly amazing and I think it still counts as homemade. I can only imagine how wonderful her Canadian home must smell.
The salve is becoming legendary. Recipients of last year are begging for more. I'm told it heals anything from diaper rash to windburn to hemmorhoids. I'm also told that some northern ladies were coveting some southern ladies' healing salve and I've been encouraged to skip sending teas this year and just send large vats of salve. Alrighty then!
Comfrey0001 We have a small crockpot that came with my large slow cooker. I think it's intended purpose was to keep dips warm.We've never used it for that. Truthfully, we'd never used it at all until last year when we discovered it to be perfect for making salve.
I put a handful each of dried plaintain, comfrey, calendula, and St. John's Wort in the crock and then fill it all the way with olive oil. I leave the herbs to simmer all Herbs0001day.
    At the end of the day, I drain the oil through cheesecloth, squeezing as much of it as possible out of the herbs. I toss the herbs into the garden. Then, I measure the oil and put it back into the crockpot. When it is warmed, I add one ounce of pure beeswax for every 8 ounces of oil. This seems to give it the right consistency when it cools. While it is still warm, I add a few drops of lavender essential oil, a few drops of tea tree oil, and I squeeze out the contents of two or three Vitamin E capsules. Don't skip the Vitamin E--that's the preservative. Stir it all until the beeswax is melted and it's all blended. Pour into containers of choice. Mountain Rose Herbs sells the dried herbs and a variety of containers. I think these little herbals sets would make nice hostess gifts, too. That's all for me today--I'm off to deliver teachers' gifts.

A Day of Grace

December_pictures_026On Holy Days, Mike works for EWTN, directing the televised Mass from the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception. Our family makes the pilgrimage to the Shrine early, well before Mass, because Mike needs the pre-production time to work. This leaves us hours to wander in the most beautiful church I know. I am so grateful that these regular pilgrimages are a part of our family culture and that my children have an intimate relationship with both the place and the people of Mary's Shrine.
   December_pictures_020 Yesterday, it was very, very crowded. There were over 3.000 Haitians there to advance the cause for sainthood of Mother Mary Lange. They made for a very festive atmosphere. It was also a bit more overwhelming than usual.
    We began with confession. The confessional is located right next to the Crypt Church on the lower level. There was a Mass being celebrated while we waited. My children love to go to confession at the Basilica--the confessionals themselves are "cool" but it's the priests who really win their hearts. We were there a long time, as the priests gave each of us extended time and attention. We traded off with Karoline, who found herself in the Basilica for the first time since learning to walk and was determined to show us all the places she wanted to go!
    After confession, we went down to the bookstore and giftshop. Since the medals I had intended for the boys for St. Nicholas Day never arrived, I was eager to see if I could purchase them there. And I could! I also found a couple of Christmas gifts and thoroughly enjoyed poking through the display of Advent reading. The Advent devotional I had ordered for myself (which didn't arrive when the medals didn't arrive) was there as well. All the frustrations of the bad day were rapidly dissolving in the good one.
   December_pictures_019 We went to the Great Upper Church and stopped at each little chapel to pray. The children chose one chapel in which to light their vigil candles.And Katie found her way to her favorite chapel where she threw pennies in the water and made new friends with other children.
    Finally, it was time for Mass. As soon as the first strains of music began, Karoline started to scream. Honestly, I think she thought she was singing. But it was so high-pitched and so distinctive that the benevolant man running the television production, who was outside in the TV truck, winced when it hit his headset. And then, he turned to his colleagues and said, "I'm pretty sure that's my child." Thankfully, I had positioned us right by a stairway. I left the children and spirited Karoline back down to the lower church. I had plans to sit in front of the statue of St. Joseph and beg on behalf of a friend was moving yesterday and one who would dearly love to move very soon.  But those prayers were said while in pursuit of a toddler who would have nothing of sitting anywhere.
    In the center of the lower church, just next to the large crowd of  disciples of Mother Mary Lange, was a very  impressive exhibit of the Russian December_pictures_023_2Orthodox Church in the Twentieth Century (note: the link says that there's an entrance fee; there is not). It took me a minute or two to absorb what this display was and then, honestly, I giggled. I drew the attention of an Easter Orthodox priest who looked up from a relic of St. John Maximovich and smiled at me. I pointed out to him that we were standing in front of a beautiful display of relics of saints of the Orthodox church which were being displayed in a Catholic shrine named for the Immaculate Conception and that the Immaculate Conception was a bit of a point of difference between the two churches. I asked how that display came to find itself there. He told me that the Basilica was the only place in DC that was large enough and open and friendly towards the display.We had a nice chat while I stood swaying Karoline. As soon as she was asleep,I took a few minutes in front of St. John Maximovich's hat to pray particularly for a family dear to that saint and then I crept back up to the church to join my children.
    December_pictures_024 After Mass, I had hoped the Upper Church would clear out as it usually does. I had visions of having the Miraculous Medal Chapel to ourselves for a few moments. That was not to be. The mass for Mother Mary Lange was scheduled next and the great crowd from downstairs stampeded upstairs. Fortunately, Mike was finished and he found us at the Blessed Sacrament chapel. We gathered the troops and went back downstairs, truly just searching for any quiet , sort of private place a this point. We found the chapel of Our Lady of Brezje. December_pictures_025_2 There, our family made the consecration to the Blessed Mother and we gave the children their medals. Since I'm quite sure that it was providential to be in this particular chapel (there was no place else to go), I plan to learn a little more about Our Lady of Brezje this week. I do know that these words, quoted on the righthand wall, will provide much food for meditation: This is all I desire: to be where God wants me to be.
   
December_pictures_010_2 We left the Shrine and went to Chinatown for lunch. Mike's office is in the nearby neighborhood and he took us to a restaurant he knew well. He ordered an amazing feast and the children ate very, very well. Karoline charmed all the dear Chinese ladies and they kept bringing her little treats to eat. This provided just the diversion to allow us to catch up with Michael a bit.
    After Chinatown, we wandered over to the National Christmas Tree. December_pictures_012_2 This momentous occasion marked the first time Karoline rode in what we now affectionately call "The New AAA Stroller," named for the trash company and not the automotive company, though both visited on that fateful day.  We watched the trains and visited the nativity and saw each of the individual staDecember_pictures_016te trees. Mike and I ran into a friend from high school and caught up a bit. Patrick and Mary Beth are sure they saw Mr. Mitchell there but by the time they were able to interrupt me and see if they could go talk to him, they couldn't find him. Since I know he was in town this weekend,  I guess it's possible that is indeed who they saw.It's a very small world.  We stayed at the tree as the sun was setting and waited until it was lit. December_pictures_018 We walked past the White House and the children discussed what it would be like to play soccer on that lawn. Then we piled back into the van, picked up the other car, and took Michael back to school.
    After leaving Michael, Mike surprised us with a stop at Dairy Queen. I am a huge fan of peppermint ice cream. I pretty much save all my ice cream eating for those few weeks of the year when there is peppermint ice cream to be had. And I am here to tell you that last night I learned that a Peppermint Chip Blizzard at Dairy Queen is the December_pictures_017most amazing peppermint ice cream on the planet. I promise.
    We arrived home just in time to plop in front of the television and learn that a homeschooler won the Heismann Trophy. We said our evening prayers, revealed the wee Babe in the candle, and went to bed. I told Mike it was one of the best days I can remember. To ice the cake, Karoline slept through the night for the first time ever. Takes a lot out of a baby to go on a pilgrimage:-)

Novena to Our Lady of Guadalupe

Image_olgYes! Another novena. This one is my favorite novena to Our Lady of Guadalupe. Her feast is December 12th. Isn't the beginning of Advent rich? In our family, we are praying the Novena before the Feast of the Immaculate Conception and we will add this one, too.I find that candles lit for the novenas help to capture the children's attention and these prayers are not so very long. My children seem very happy to be drawn into the season of feasts. So, there will be overlapping novenas. The St. Andrew Prayer in Anticipation of Christmas (on the righthand sidebar) will be prayed throughout Advent, drawing us every day into the very hour and moment of Christ's birth. It's the beginning of the liturgical year and a beautiful time of preparation in the Church. I find these particular prayers to be especially beneficial in creating a spirit of intention in our home. What does God intend for us? How does He intend us to direct our thoughts? To spend our time.I am particularly grateful for the deliberate attention to Mary, the Mother of God. I have written before about the way that I use the word "ladylike." It is my dearest desire to be so like Our Lady that I, too, carry Christ within my very being. Novenas in honor Our Lady draw us closer to her spirit and help us to infuse our souls with her sweetness. I do so love this one!

First Day


Rose Dearest Lady of Guadalupe, fruitful Mother of holiness, teach me your ways of gentleness and strength. Hear my humble prayer offered with heartfelt confidence to beg this favor......
Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory.

 

Second Day


RoseO Mary, conceived without sin, I come to your throne of grace to share the fervent devotion of your faithful Mexican children who call to you under the glorious Aztec title of Guadalupe. Obtain for me a lively faith to do your Son’s holy will always: May His will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory.

 

Third Day

RoseO Mary, whose Immaculate Heart was pierced by seven swords of grief, help me to walk valiantly amid the sharp thorns strewn across my pathway. Obtain for me the strength to be a true imitator of you. This I ask you, my dear Mother.
Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory.

 

Fourth Day

RoseDearest Mother of Guadalupe, I beg you for a fortified will to imitate your divine Son’s charity, to always seek the good of others in need. Grant me this, I humbly ask of you.
Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory.

 

Fifth Day

RoseO most holy Mother, I beg you to obtain for me pardon of all my sins, abundant graces to serve your Son more faithfully from now on, and lastly, the grace to praise Him with you forever in heaven.
Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory.

 

Sixth Day

RoseMary, Mother of vocations, multiply priestly vocations and fill the earth with religious houses which will be light and warmth for the world, safety in stormy nights. Beg your Son to send us many priests and religious. This we ask of you, O Mother.
Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory.

 

Seventh Day

RoseO Lady of Guadalupe, we beg you that parents live a holy life and educate their children in a Christian manner; that children obey and follow the directions of their parents; that all members of the family pray and worship together. This we ask of you, O Mother.
Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory.

 

Eighth Day

RoseWith my heart full of the most sincere veneration, I prostrate myself before you, O Mother, to ask you to obtain for me the grace to fulfill the duties of my state in life with faithfulness and constancy.
Our father, Hail Mary, Glory.

 

Ninth Day

RoseO God, You have been pleased to bestow upon us unceasing favors by having placed us under the special protection of the Most Blessed Virgin Mary. Grant us, your humble servants, who rejoice in honoring her today upon earth, the happiness of seeing her face to face in heaven.
Our Father, Hail Mary, Glory.

Immaculate Conception Novena Candle

Last year, inspired by this post , and this one, and another like them, I resolved to try to make a novena candle for the novena before the Feast of the Immaculate Conception. My candle is a plain white pillar candle.  I used a butter knife to hollow out a "cave" at its base. Inside the cave, there rests a tiny beeswax Baby Jesus. The pure white candle hollow is covered with layers of white tulle pinned into place. White silk flowers and pearls embellish the tulle. We'll light the candle when we say the novena prayer. On the Feast of the Immaculate Conception I will pull the pins and reveal the Babe in the pure, white womb. Then we'll have the candle with the Babe to enjoy for the remainder of  the season. Many thanks to the ladies who suggested this craft--my children are delighted and inspired.

Seasons_table_015 Opening Prayer

God, Our Father, you have given us Mary whom we honor as the Immaculate Conception.  You have favored her with holiness and purity, freeing her from the stain of sin, to be chosen as the Mother of Jesus.  Through her intercession and protection, may we live our lives in holiness and in complete trust of your loving plan for us.  Amen.

 

Day 1

O Blessed Virgin Mary, from the beginning of time God chose you, sinless and full of grace, to be the Mother of Jesus.  Because of your unselfish “fiat,” you are for us the example of perfect faith and obedience to what God is calling us to do.

O Mary of the Immaculate Conception, help us to be open to the Word of God

in our daily lives.  Hail Mary, full of grace…

 

Day 2

O Mary, Mother of God, we honor you for your submission to the unfolding mystery of salvation history. From Bethlehem to Calvary, you were present to Jesus as faithful mother and courageous disciple, sharing in the mysteries of his life.

O Mary of the Immaculate Conception, may we be for others a living presence of God’s joy and compassion. Hail Mary, full of grace…

 

Day 3

O Mary of Nazareth, you were filled with the light of the Holy Spirit as you prepared for the birth of Jesus.  You became the Mother of God and the Mother of the Redeemer, our mother and intercessor for the People of God, his Church.

O Mary of the Immaculate Conception, may we wait in hopeful expectation this Advent for the coming of the Lord Jesus in our hearts.  Hail Mary, full of grace…

 

Day 4

O Mary, Mother of the Eucharist, you were in a sense the first tabernacle for Jesus.  In your womb his Sacred Heart beat under your Immaculate Heart.  You are the Vessel of Honor, the Ark of the Covenant, and Gate of Heaven.  Filled with grace, you give Jesus to us that we may bring him to others.

O Mary of the Immaculate Conception, may we have a deep and reverent love
for Jesus in the Holy Eucharist.  Hail Mary, full of grace…

 

Day 5

O Mary, Mother of Sorrows, your heart was pierced with a sword as you stood on Calvary beneath the cross of your Son.  Only a mother could experience such deep pain and anguish to see her only son die such a death.

O Mary of the Immaculate Conception, may we acknowledge that suffering can become for us redemptive and truly identifies us as one with Jesus.  Hail Mary, full of grace…

 

Day 6

O Mary, our Life, our Sweetness and our Hope, from age to age you are called blessed among all women.  You, above all others, have a deep communion with God.  You are the model of virtue, prayer and discipleship.

O Mary of the Immaculate Conception, lead us into a prayerful and deeply authentic relationship with Jesus so that we may be holy and reflect his goodness to others.  Hail Mary, full of grace…

 

Day 7

O Mary, Spouse of the Holy Spirit, your holiness and obedience changed the course of history through the redemptive power of your Son.  You give us the example of discipleship and what it means to witness to the Way, the Truth and the Life—Jesus.

O Mary of the Immaculate Conception, we pray for holiness, especially as lived through the priesthood and consecrated life. Hail Mary, full of grace…

 

Day 8

O Mary, Mother of Divine Grace, you intercede for us and lead us to your Son. Jesus said to John, “Behold, your Mother.” You are our spiritual mother, who  draws us ever closer to your Son.

O Mary of the Immaculate Conception, may our devotion to you increase our love for Jesus.  Hail Mary, full of grace…

 

Day 9

O Mary, Seat of Wisdom, you gave Jesus, the Eternal Word made flesh, to the world. What a privilege was yours—to bring him forth into the world so that all peoples and nations may be drawn to him, Incarnate Wisdom.

O Mary of the Immaculate Conception, may the Gospel of Jesus Christ, reach the farthest ends of the earth.  Help us to grow in knowledge and love of the Blessed Trinity.  Hail Mary, full of grace.

 

Concluding Prayer

Mary, we honor you as the Mother of our Redeemer, Jesus Christ.  O Mary of the Immaculate Conception, we delight in your singular privilege of being born with the fullness of grace, completely preserved from the stain of original sin. Blessed among all women, you are especially favored by God.  Confident in that honor we place before you our needs and intentions (name the intention). Through your intercession, may it be brought to fulfillment. In gratitude for your motherly concern, O Mary Immaculate, patroness of the United States of America, we pray:

                                     You are all beautiful, O Mary.

                                     The original stain is not in thee.

                                     You are the glory of Jerusalem,

                                     The joy of Israel,

                                     The great honor of our race,

                                     The advocate of sinners.

                                     Virgin most prudent, pray for us.

                                     Intercede for us with our Lord Jesus Christ.

                                     Amen

 

                                   (Taken from the Latin hymn: Tota Pulchra es, Maria!)

 

Advent and Christmas with Tomie de Paola and Others: Week 2

Advent and Christmas with Tomie de Paola and Others

Scripture Memory Verse: And Mary said, “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, For he has regarded the low estate of his handmaiden.  For behold, henceforth all generations will call me blessed; for he who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is his name.”

Luke 1: 46-49  Shorten as necessary.

Narration:

Child will listen to or read The Legend of the Poinsettia and The Lady of Guadalupe and The Night of Las Posadas and narrate. 

Stories to Read:

The Lady of Guadalupe

The Night of Las Posadas

The Legend of the Poinsettia

The Christmas Miracle of Jonathon Toomey

The Christmas Tree (Salamon)

Read Aloud: A Christmas Carol. (Dickens). 

Copywork

For beginners: May God be as good to you as he was to Juan Diego.

For middles: Juan Diego looked down.  His rough cactus-fiber tilma had been changed into a painting of the Lady just as he had last seen her at the foot of  Tepeyac.

For the big kids:

And Mary said, “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, For he has regarded the low estate of his handmaiden.  For behold, henceforth all generations will call me blessed; for he who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is his name.”

Rabbit Trails for the whole family:

Read about Mexico.  Find it on the map and tell about the country today.  How is Christmas celebrated there?

Make Holiday Flan:

4 eggs

2 and one half cups milk

one half cup honey

1 teaspoon vanilla

1 to 2 tablespoons warmed honey or syrup

Method:

In a medium bowl, beat the eggs until foamy.  In a small saucepan, heat the milk and honey together just to simmering, then add the vanilla.

In a slow, thin stream, beat the milk mixture into the eggs.  Our the mixture into a buttered 9” layer cake pan or flan pan.  Place in a large, shallow pan or baking dish filled with hot water to a depth of one-half inch.  Bake at 325 degrees for thirty-five to forty minutes, or until the center is fairly firm.  Glaze with the honey.

Makes six servings

(from Joy to the World by Phyllis Vos Wezeman and Jude Dennis Fournier)

The creche is an important part of The Legend of the Poinsettia.  Where did the tradition of the manger scene begin?  Read about it in Francis, The Poor Man of Assisi by Tomie dePaola.

Make tissue paper flowers in red, white, and pink, traditional poinsettia colors.

Copy de Paola’s picture of Our Lady of Guadeloupe onto cardstock using magic markers.  Send it as a Christmas card.

Using felt, make a large banner of Our Lady like the one in the book.

Have a procession like the one in the book.  Gather up some friends to parade with you and have hot chocolate and cookies afterwards.

Make  Mexican Hot Chocolate for tea time.

Copy the recipe above and embellish the recipe card for your lapbook.

Make a manger scene using old-fashioned clothespins, doll head beads and felt (all supplies are readily available in craft stores).

Make clothespin poinsettia ornaments.

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Detailed directions with pictures to follow, but you need old fashioned clothespins and doll heads, artificial poinsettias (3 or 4  will probably do), hot glue and glue gun, a little paint or markers in pink and blue, something to use as doll hair, gold cord to use to hang the ornaments, and flesh colored pipe cleaners.

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Make rose pound cake.

Make a Juan Diego for your lapbook. Copy the illustration of Jaun Diego twice.  Cut the tilma only out of one of the copies.  Copy the image of Our Lady.

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Cut and glue the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe to the full copy of Juan Diego. Tape the bottom of the tilma-only copy to the Juan Diego.  Stick rose stickers to the inside so that when it falls open, you see roses. 

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If there is a baby in the house, make a ceremony of letting each child trace a cross on her forehead and say, “May God be as good to you as he was to Juan Diego.”

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Make a grotto for Our Lady of Guadalupe

Set up a family shrine.

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Make ornaments like the ones  pictured on the 4Real Message Boards.

Watch Juan Diego:  Messenger of Guadalupe

More rabbit trails for older children:

Research Christmas traditions in Mexico. Make a flip book of them for your lapbook.

The story of Our Lady of Guadeloupe is presented as a legend in the book, using another source, read about the Church’s official teaching on Juan Diego. Read about the canonization of Juan Diego.

Our Lady of Guadeloupe is just one of many of Mary’s titles.  Make a list of all of them and decorate the list with embellishments.

Carve a nativity set.

Draw Our Lady of Guadalupe

Poet Study:

Read Twas The Night Before Christmas by Clement C. Moore, Matt Tavares (Illustrator).  Read every day, slowly, memorizing the poem together.  This is the only poetry for the entire month.  Break copywork into small chunks.  Let children illustrate segments as they memorize.

Science and Nature Study

Don’t forget to get outside for a hike and don’t let it get swept away by the pressure of the season.  A brisk walk is a great stress-buster for mom and kids.

Go to a Christmas tree farm and compare the different varieties of trees.  Make sketches and label them in nature notebooks.

Read about Christmas plants in Hark! A Christmas Sampler (beginning on page 60). Visit a nursery to see Christmas plants up close.  Bring home a poinsettia.

Narrate what you learned about Christmas plants and make a poinsettia covered brad-book for your lapbook.  Copy  a poinsettia picture from de Paola’s book, laminate it, trace it onto several pages of lined paper.  Write narrations on the lined paper and “bind” them behind the laminated illustration with a brad.

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Music:

Enjoy A Classical Kids Christmas

Listen to Castilian Roses

Tea Time Read Aloud

Saint’s biography: The Story of Our Lady of Guadalupe, Empress of the Americas

Jotham’s Journey (Ytreeide)  This is includes a daily reading for every day of Advent and Christmas Day.  It is an adventure story that can get intense at times.  Preview each selection and paraphrase if you think it necessary.  Not a bedtime story.