On a Monday in June: Life's Just Ducky

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I find myself:

::noticing God's glory

I replanted the front bed on Friday. The impatiens were getting too much sun. I just hope it's enough sun for the wave petunias. In other news, this adorable rabbit is utterly fearless and has a voracious appetite. Morning glories and roses seem to be favored foods. 

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::listening to 

NBA finals. (I started writing this post Sunday night.)

 

::clothing myself in 

Sweatshirt and jeans. It's chilly out there. And I'm so pleased with myself; I got my glasses adjusted. They're not crooked on my face any more. Love that.

 

::talking with my children about these books

Since I'm going to share my own reading on Thursdays at needle and thREAD, I thought I'd share some reading from our family's choices. None of these have changed since last week. Clearly, they are not reading enough.

Patrick is reading Walking with God: A Journey through the Bible.

Mary Beth is reading Joy in the Ordinary.

Stephen is reading The Hobbit.

Katie is reading An Ordinary Princess.

Nicholas is reading Teddy Roosevelt and the Treasure of Ursa Major.

And the little girls and I are gathering all our seashore picture books...

I joined Goodreads. I don't remember why or how. I do notice that I've been gathering "friends." To these people, I apologize. I haven't gotten over there to record anything yet. I will, I promise. As soon as I remember what I used to log in the first time:-).

 

::thinking and thinking

about time and how I want to spend it. I remember when someone first suggested I start to blog. I couldn't imagine finding time in my days to record here with any regularity. But as I grew to love the medium, I found the time. So it has been with other things: knitting, sewing, Facebook, Twitter, the stack of books teetering on my nightstand. (On second thought,  maybe not Twitter. I have never quite found my way around there.) I've made plenty of time for prayer. I exercise. I'm really not a time waster. But time is finite and I have learned that I can't just keep organizing it differently and somehow "find" more time. Instead, I'm finding I can't do everything I want to do, even when it's all good. So, I'm thinking and thinking and trying to discern. Lots of opportunities out there; I need to hear what God wants most. Your prayers are much appreciated.

::giving thanks for

my friend Megan, who has a knack for sweeping in and doing and saying just the right thing. Sometimes, an afternoon with Megan does me as much good as a vacation. I'm not kidding.

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{the summer from the top of a swing}

 

::pondering prayerfully

"In 1848, I realized that if I wanted to get anywhere in doing some good, I had to put politics aside. From then on, I always shied away from politics and managed to do good without interference. In addition, I found help where I least expected it."

- St. John Bosco


 

 

::carefully cultivating rhythm

 my plan this week is to write absolutely everything in my planner. I've gotten out of that habit and I think I create stress for myself by not committing it all to writing.


::creating by hand

Sarah's sundress is all cut and ready to sew. I really need to pick up the pace if these girls are going to have handmade wardrobes before the season is too far gone. And I really, really need to return to my quilting project. And I wanted to get a jump on Christmas making. The list is endless! Time, however, is not.

 

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::learning lessons in

setting aside my plans, trying to see God's will in the "revised" plan.

 

::encouraging learning 

I'm happy with our summer learning plans. Just enough to keep us going, not so much we can't soak up the sunshine. Looking ahead, I have talked with an old friend about Alphabet Path and some other things and we have so many ideas. There is a resurgence of joy at the thought of collaborating. And Megan and I talked about next term and I'm excited about some IRL co-opping.

::begging prayers

for all the people who have joined our weekend prayer community. I carried your requests with me to Mass and I will keep a candle lit for you throughout the week.

For my dear friend Jan and her family as the grieve the loss of her father-in-law.

:keeping house

I've got to rearrange some things and clear out some other things to better use my space. This is the week to do it. 

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::crafting in the kitchen 

I have been following these dietary guidelines for treating hypothyroidism. They're pretty hardcore. On Saturday, I "cheated" with a cup of capuccino in the morning and ate a few forks full of cheesecake in the evening. I felt absolutely awful on Sunday. Awful enough to be persuaded that this food thing is for real. I read It Starts with Food Sunday evening. And now, to begin again. ...

It's hard to believe that all this is really necessary, but, the more I read and the more I play with it, the more I think it is. 

::loving the moments

Mike left Father's Day evening for Miami. Big games down there this week. He sent me a note while sitting on the tarmac to tell me how happy Father's Day made him. His note made me cry. I'm glad the day was good for him; he works so hard and tries with all his heart to make this life good for us.

 

::living the liturgy

My kids looked at all that green space on the calendar that indicates Ordinary Time and mourned the passing of this season of feasts. Of course, there are still plenty of scattered feasts to celebrate. I'm hoping to do several hours of planning for coming liturgical feasts this week. I'm motivated to have a plan and to ensure the the traditions of this household don't fade with the busy-ness of the big kids. The big kids need to know the faith will always be celebrated here and the little ones need to learn that those traditions are ours. Not every Catholic home lives the liturgical year. Not every Catholic family grabs greedily at all the graces this life of faith offers. But this one will. It's a beautiful way to live we've been offered and we need to always, always appreciate the gift by living it to its fullest.

 

::planning for the week ahead

Megan has a big play date planned for my little ones. I have a marathon writing day planned. Same day.

I'd like to step up the sewing pace a bit.

I need to finalize dance school plans.

Some reorganizing, for sure.

And oh, that eating plan: no added sugar, alcohol, grains, legumes, dairy, coffee or nightshades. As my friend Tracey noted: fish and leaves. Fortunately, I like fish and leaves.  Hopefully after the Whole 30, some of those other things will prove to not be problematic. 

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::about the pictures

Our orthodontist donated a bazillion rubber ducks for the pool party on the last day of school. Patrick and Christian are lifeguards at the pool. I remember being a lifeguard at my neighborhood pool growing up. We did a lot of inventive and creative things to pass the hours. Never did we come up with something like these ducks. My boys have turned the ducks into super heroes. People are asking to buy them:-). As far as I know they're not for sale. If you give a boy a Sharpie and some "duck" tape, the possibilities are endless, I tell you.

Don't forget, we've got some giveaways going:

Heirloom wooden doll

Handmade vintage earrings

Lovely inspirational prints

Summer Monday Moment

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I find myself:

::noticing God's glory

It's hot. Ricidulously hot and humid. And I'm officially declaring that impatiens in the front bed are a disaster. The ones across the street look great. Mine? Not so much. I'm starting to think I really need to amend that soil; it seems like the front flowers are never what I envision. Now what do I plant?

::listening to 

Sarah, Karoline and Katie playing in the tub.

 

::clothing myself in 

Shorts and a white blouse. One can never have enough white blouses. Love them.

 

::talking with my children about these books

Since I'm going to share my own reading on Thursdays at needle and thREAD, I thought I'd share some reading from our family's choices. 

Patrick is reading Walking with God: A Journey through the Bible.

Mary Beth is reading Joy in the Ordinary.

Stephen is reading The Hobbit.

Katie is reading An Ordinary Princess.

Nicholas is reading Teddy Roosevelt and the Treasure of Ursa Major.

And the little girls and I are gathering all our seashore picture books...

 

::thinking and thinking

about grace and mercy. And friendship. What a blessing when one has all three. What a sorrow when one doesn't.

::giving thanks for

summer days, green smoothies, bright pink toenails, that sunscreen smell...

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::pondering prayerfully

Whenever anything disagreeable or displeasing happens to you, remember Christ crucified and be silent. ~St. John of the Cross

::carefully cultivating rhythm

Mike has started walking with me in the morning. This is a significant rhythm-changer. Early mornings have long been my quiet time. I get out of bed easily in order to grab those moments of golden silence. Now, we're out in the day together. The tradeoff is that I get time to talk with him, away from the house, away from interruptions. And he is over a foot taller than I am so his stride is much longer than mine. I'm nearly jogging just to keep up with him!

In other news, two of my children crashed two different cars last Monday. (In case you're counting, this is the second time this year that we've had two car crashes on the same day). There has been significant impact on my rhythm. And my stress level. Ahem.


::creating by hand

Katie's sundress is all cut and ready to sew. Needle & thRead has been good for me. I'm much less likely to procrastinate.

 

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(A note from Karoline to Hilary telling her what a great job she did on her solo. Kari wrote it 6 hours before the recital began. She has great faith in Hilary's dancing!)

::learning lessons in

setting aside my plans, trying to see God's will in the "revised" plan.

 

::encouraging learning 

I'm happy with our summer learning plans. Just enough to keep us going, not so much we can't soak up the sunshine.

::begging prayers

for all the people who have joined our weekend prayer community. I carried your requests with me to Mass and I will keep a candle lit for you throughout the week.

for Elizabeth DeHority, who will watch her eldest graduate today. Praise God for the miracle of time. This is a day that every doctor told her she'd never live to see.

 

:keeping house

Nothing of note here. Just the regular. Sometimes, regular is a welcome relief, no?

 

::crafting in the kitchen 

I made our first caprese salad last week--tomatoes, fresh mozzarella, basil, good olive oil--only the basil was from our garden, but I do see green tomatoes out there. It won't be long now!

 

::loving the moments

when I see glimpses of the past and the future. These two little girls have been friends since they were infants. One early spring day, I saw a bunch of kids playing on the playground near soccer practice. There was only one woman at the playground; she was sitting on the bench with a baby. I pondered the big van parked next to my big van. And I worked up what is a whole lot of courage for me. I went over to her and said, "I never thought I'd utter these words, but are all these children yours?" She said they were and I rushed into explain that I had nine and people ask me that all the time. She "only" had seven at the time. We sat and chatted and learned we knew lots of people in common. And we delighted in a common faith. That was this first of many park dates and countless hours on soccer sidelines together. These two little girls--babies back then-- have been friends forever, literally. I like the chances that they will be friends forever.

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::living the liturgy

Ordinary Time. Lent, Easter, the Trio of Feasts...all have come to a close. We settle into Ordinary Time. Our days are ordered. Order is good. Very good.

 

::planning for the week ahead

Car repairs. Sundress sewing. And, hopefully, a fair amount of writing. Please, God?

Soccer season will finally end. For at least a week or two...

And Father's Day! We definitely have some Father's Day plans brewing.

::about the pictures

I thought I'd have lots and lots of dance recital pictures. I don't. Mary Beth was too tired after her show to pose with flowers, or even to pose at all...So, you can see her costume in the trunk of my car and the flowers after the recital. And that's all; not even close to representative of time spent. 

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Moments on a Monday

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I find myself:

::noticing God's glory

The garden is popping! I'm so enjoying watching the neighborhood come to life. Walking in the morning gives me a chance to soak it all in and to notice even the subtle day-to-day changes. 

::listening to 

The USA-Canada soccer match.

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::clothing myself in 

Long shorts (short longs?) and a red tunic.

 

::talking with my children about these books

Since I'm going to share my own reading on Thursdays at needle and thREAD, I thought I'd share some reading from our family's choices. 

Patrick is reading Walking with God: A Journey through the Bible.

Mary Beth is reading Joy in the Ordinary.

Stephen has asked to read the Count of Monte Cristo.

Katie is annoyed beyond belief at how the movie version differs from the book version of Mr. Popper's Penguins.

Nick is still working through the Hunger Games trilogy.

And the little girls and I are gathering all our seashore picture books...

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::thinking and thinking

When I wrote this piece, I received mail from several people asking about the difference between depression and spiritual desolation. It's not really a question I'm comfortable answering from afar. I think that a good spiritual director is essential in both circumstances and can help to discern the differences.

On a not altogether unrelated note, I also got mail about a post written by a friend of mine. To those folks, I gently reiterate what has always been true here. I hold my friends close and dear. I treasure them. We are all on a journey. I value the fellowship of my friends on that journey and I pray that I can be faithful and true to them every step of the way. When they shoulder a cross, I want to be the first to help them carry it, not the one who walks the other way. And yes, sometimes it hurts. I'm good with that. There's value in suffering.

::giving thanks for

my dear man, who truly did not rest this weekend, but offered me the opportunity to hit the reset button. He's sunburned and exhausted and so very loved.

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::pondering prayerfully

"The mark of a Catholic is the ability to see the Divine where it is least expected: in a baby in the arms of his mother, in bread and wine, in prayers tolled on beads, in the voice of an old man in Rome." Fulton Sheen

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::carefully cultivating rhythm

Rhythm kicked my tushie last week. After a week upended with Patrick's knee, we had a three day weekend that was about a million soccer games in the boiling heat. Laundry piled up. I got totally exhausted. I had a major house project happening. I might have even eaten pizza and had a cup of coffee. My thyroid went on a wild ride. And then, I totally crashed. Wiped out.  In a big way. I took the whole weekend to get back on an even keel. Much better:-).


::creating by hand

We are making new rosaries for everyone. I'd hoped to have them finished during May, but, um, see above. This week...

I made Karoline a darling sundress yesterday. Another Oliver + S pattern. I might be a Liesl Gibson groupie. She's amazing. Just wonderful. Pictures on Thursday for needle and thREAD. I've got Katie's all laid out. Hopefully, one for Sarah will also happen this week. Sewing makes me happy. Really happy. 

Speaking of needle and thREAD, I've promised myself an hour or so this afternoon to go visiting. I haven't read all the links in the last two weeks. I'm looking so forward to it!

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::learning lessons in

discernment of spirits. More reading here.

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::encouraging learning 

Summer schedule begins today. Some intensive math. IEW writing. Lots of reading.

::begging prayers

for all the people who have joined our weekend prayer community. I carried your requests with me to Mass and I will keep a candle lit for you throughout the week.

for lonely missionaries

for baby Truman, who drowned in a few inches of water , but was revived. Won't you watch and wait with us, keeping Truman, his doctors, and his beautiful family in your unceasingly prayers?

 

:keeping house

I deep cleaned the bedrooms of the 3 older boys last week. I also did 16 loads of laundry over the weekend. These two things are related. Yes, I think that's pathetic. It will never happen again. Mark my words.

 

::crafting in the kitchen 

Green Smoothies. Trying some recipes of Nissa's. Actually, I'm going green in a big way for all of June. We'll see if that helps the thyroid do its thing more efficiently.

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::loving the moments

when every laundry basket in the house is empty. No, it didn't really happen. But if it did, I'd love the moment.

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::living the liturgy

We finished  33 Days to Morning Glory  and the children did their Marian Consecration on the Feast of the Visitation. It was a lovely, lovely day.

This week is the Feast of Corpus Christi. Our mission is named Corpus Christi. I need to think of something good for this feast. Suggestions welcome...

 

::planning for the week ahead

Dance recital this weekend! Should make for an exciting week.


 

 

Monday Moments

{These Monday moments? Jotted down on Sunday. Full of prom pictures. There's a Grandma in Florida who wants to see them all. Please indulge her, y'all.}

I find myself:

::noticing God's glory

Morning walks are full of signs of new life. Little buds, new leaves, berries not yet ripe. There are ducklings and goslings in the lake and I think some new bunnies under the hedges. The weather was absolutely glorious this weekend.

 

::listening to 

Sarah and Karoline playing "Prom." Kristin came over as the pre-prom bustle started bustling. She spirited the little girls upstairs for hairdos and makeup and manicures and pedicures. Then they put on dress up clothes. This is the (new) game that will never end.

 

::clothing myself in 

Cropped jeans, my favorite gray shirt and a big apron with strawberries on a field of black. This apron best hides beet stains and roasted beets are on the menu for dinner tonight.

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Hilary pinning

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::talking with my children about these books

Since I'm going to share my own reading on Thursdays at needle and thREAD, I thought I'd share some reading from our family's choices. 

Mary Beth and I are digging into the free Grace Livingston Hill downloads on Kindle. She didn't get terribly excited about hers but I read mine cover-to-cover over the weekend. Happy sigh. This is remarkable because it is only the second fiction book outside of books for my children's education that I've finished since 1990. It's also the second book I finished last week:-).

 I used to read fiction voraciously. Then I got cancer. I never finished a fiction book on my own again. I'm not sure why and I haven't spent much time analyzing it. Partly, it's because I hate conflict and every good book has some conflict. But that's not the all of it.

Whatever it was, I'm cured! I've begun my second Grace Livingston Hill book and I'll also be back tomorrow to share with you the very first fiction-for-mama book I've read in the last two decades.

::thinking and thinking

On Saturday, Patrick hurt his knee. We don't yet know how big a deal it is, but our hearts stood still in the moment, for sure. I was dispatched to drop in on Hilary and let her know that plans for prom would most definitely change. I interrupted the merry afternoon she had planned to ready herself for the big dance to tell her that Patrick was going to go on crutches. He wasn't to drive and he'd have to be really careful. What's more, he might be a little preoccupied, because knees are rather important to boys who plan on soccer careers. 

She responded with nothing but concern for him, with absolute certainty that they'd change whatever plans necessary, and the assurance that if it was in his best interest, they didn't have to go at all.

For his part, he determined not to show any sign of pain, not to take any pictures with crutches, and to dedicate the evening to making her smile. 

And smile she did.

They went to dinner at the home of friends and then, after dinner and before the dance, paid a visit to Mike's parents so that Patrick's grandparents could take in the glorious sight they were. 

It was an early evening as proms go, but the memory will linger happily a long, long time.

::giving thanks for

a sweet girl whose blue eyes brim, not because she's sad for herself, but because she cares so much about my boy.

::pondering prayerfully

When Mother Teresa received the Nobel Peace Prize, she was asked, "What can we do to promote world peace?" She answered "Go home and love your family."

Prom 1

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::carefully cultivating rhythm

Hah! A few weeks ago, I ordered a big box of curriculum kinds of things. I explained to a friend that my thought was that I wanted an underpinning of things that would happen everyday--a little grammar, a little math, a little handwriting, a little spelling, some foreign language. I prefer more creative endeavors, and many days we do those, but I wanted something that would be there whatever came.

My words to my friend were, "I just want to be sure we hit the rhythm of learning even on the Mondays when I get up and say, 'Nicky hurt himself in Sunday's match. I'm off the doctor-xray-doctor. Just do the regular and keep things going.'"

We're going to test that this morning. Insert Paddy instead of Nicky and Saturday instead of Sunday. Here we go.

::creating by hand

We shall see. I've been known to accomplish quite a lot in medical waiting rooms. 

::learning lessons in

trust.

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::encouraging learning 

I'm endeavoring to make sure that one day a week is dedicated to learning out of doors. From now until it's way too cold. Every week. Promising myself.

 

::begging prayers

for all the people who have joined our weekend prayer community. I carried your requests with me to Mass and I will keep a candle lit for you throughout the week. Elizabeth DeHority has left an update in last weekend's combox, for those of you who are continuing to hold her in prayer.

for lonely missionaries.

for Patrick.

for the repose of the soul of my Aunt Christina, who died this morning.

for baby Truman, who drowned in a few inches of water in a bucket this weekend, but was revived. Won't you watch and wait with us, keeping Truman, his doctors, and his beautiful family in your unceasingly prayers?

 

:keeping house

Patrick is going to re-write the chore chart. Mine is not working.

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::crafting in the kitchen 

I ended up not going to the dance competition. Mary Beth's Saturday dances were shifted to Sunday and she went with Hilary and her mom. I stayed home with Patrick, changed out ice packs, and tried to be positive and cheerful. I gathered the first herbs from our kitchen garden to make roast chicken. We're having carmelized rosemary sweet potatoes and a spinach salad with beets and bacon dressing. Sunday dinners are wonderful, aren't they?.

::loving the moments

when I wonder if my heart could be any fuller.

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::living the liturgy

We are using  33 Days to Morning Glory  in preparation for Marian Consecration on the Feast of the Visitation. Soon!

We'll celebrate Pentecost Sunday this coming weekend. My plans are just taking shape, but I know that Saturday's soccer will take us to Poolesville and that means we'll pick strawberries to be a part of a 7-fruit salad. I love the feast of Pentecost, but I admit to being a little sad this year to see the Easter season end.

 

::planning for the week ahead

When a week begins with an 8 AM appointment to the team doctor, followed by an MRI, I hesitate to make plans.

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{Photo credit? Who knows? Some are mine; some are Hilary's mom's. Some might even be Stephen on my iPhone.}

Rainy Monday Moments

I find myself:

::noticing God's glory

Is it too late to plant blueberries? Blackberries? Christian really wants a berry garden. He was too sick to do anything with it last week, but I think we're good to go this week. Should we go for it? I've got a little Mason bee condo all ready for my pollination efforts. (Mason bees are my consolation while I continue to plot and persuade towards next spring's honeybees.)

 

::listening to 

various children downstairs. It's a rainy day here and we are all so tired from a very busy weekend. I'm grateful for the cool and the clouds and a chance to re-group a bit. No soccer practice today means no hard, fast deadline at 2:30. We have a little longer to get the routine things finished and start the week well

 

::clothing myself in 

Yoga pants and a sweatshirt. I'm trying hard to figure a way to avoid the grocery store and not having to change into "real" clothes all day.

 

::giving thanks for

a very nice Mother's Day. Yesterday took us to three soccer games in two states. All three were far from each other. But, in the end, we wound up in the town where Mike and I met in high school, the town where we were married and spent the first nine years of family life together. We did a little "nostalgia drive." We didn't tell the children where we were going. When he pulled into the parking lot of the church where we were married without any explanation, Karoline squealed in sheer delight! She recognized the exterior from photos in our wedding album. They were thrilled to go inside and pay a visit. And Karoline, when she thought no one was looking, did her own little walk down the aisle. Pretty adorable. 

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::talking with my children about these books

Since I'm going to share my own reading on Thursdays at needle and thREAD, I thought I'd share some reading from our family's choices. 

Mary Beth and I are digging into the free Grace Livingston Hill downloads on Kindle. But first, I'm reading a new Catholic novel, Joy in the Ordinary. I plan a proper post all of its own as soo as I'm finished. For now, just know it's one of those books that had me standing at the kitchen counter reading when I should have been housekeeping.

::I am thinking

I promise they all are interconnected. At least they are in my brain. And maybe I'll sort them all out here, too. 

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::pondering prayerfully

When Mother Teresa received the Nobel Peace Prize, she was asked, "What can we do to promote world peace?" She answered "Go home and love your family."


::carefully cultivating rhythm

Nothing knocks me out of rhythm like fatigue. I do so much better when I go to bed early and get up early and start the day with prayer and exercise. This week: every day. That's the goal.

::creating by hand

I know I need to force myself to finish that blouse and not to be so discouraged that it didn't go according to plan that I let become an unfinished object. The thing about crafting of all kinds is that our enthusiasm is fed by our successes. As we see something start to actually work the way it should, we're motivated to keep going. When we hit a bump? Well, then it takes more than the momentum of enthusiasm to finish well. 

::learning lessons in

my own limitations.

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::encouraging learning 

It's always fun to show the basket of new books to a five-year-old. I sure wish my teenagers responded similarly.

 

::begging prayers

for all the people who have joined our weekend prayer community. I carried your requests with me to Mass and I will keep a candle lit for you throughout the week.

for lonely missionaries.

for distracted mamas; that they may see before it's too late what gives real purpose and meaning to life.

 

:keeping house

Last week, someone suggested taking away the phones of people who don't do chores. I think she's on to something. Phones, iPods... good idea, that one.

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::crafting in the kitchen 

I asked for vegetarian recipes on Facebook. I got a whole bunch of responses. Now, to organize them and start making my way through the list. I can always add some grilled meat to it to keep the carnivores happy, right?.

::loving the moments

when your kids are just so happy because they know they've presented you with the perfect Mother's Day gift. I promise to share it later this week.

::living the liturgy

We are using  33 Days to Morning Glory  in preparation for Marian Consecration on the Feast of the Visitation. 

 

::planning for the week ahead

I'm hoping for a lowkey, nesting kind of week this week, before a weekend girl's getaway for a dance competition. Patrick has prom this weekend, too. I'm having to relinquish that photo op to someone else's camera. It's killing me...

random instagram photos from yesterday. wish i'd taken more...